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By Steven Clark Lee October 1, 2024
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By Steven Clark Lee October 1, 2024
What emotions are you experiencing?
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By Clark Lee July 17, 2024
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By Clark Lee October 12, 2022
Confession with a bishop often starts from an individual's action of self-revelation. It allows church members to come before a Lord's representative, share their wrongdoings, ask for forgiveness, and start anew through repentance. Read more.

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By Steven Clark Lee October 1, 2024
What emotions are you experiencing?
A man is holding his head in his hands and crying.
By Clark Lee July 17, 2024
This is a subtitle for your new post
A man is sitting on a wooden chair with his legs crossed.
By Clark Lee October 12, 2022
Confession with a bishop often starts from an individual's action of self-revelation. It allows church members to come before a Lord's representative, share their wrongdoings, ask for forgiveness, and start anew through repentance. Read more.
A man and a woman are standing next to each other in front of a green wall.
By Clark Lee March 12, 2021
Living with PTSD can be debilitating. Likewise, it can leave you vulnerable to addiction as you seek relief from being in a constant state of distress, anxiety, or fear. How do you move forward and reclaim your life after PTSD and an addiction?
A man and a woman are laying on top of each other in the grass.
By Clark Lee February 9, 2021
Discovering infidelity or an addiction can lead to symptoms like PTSD. It's called betrayal trauma. In fact, when there is a violation of safety or trust, that betrayal can trigger a trauma response. As such, children, teens, and adults can all develop betrayal trauma.
A man and a woman are standing next to each other in the desert.
By Clark Lee January 12, 2021
Betrayal trauma can flip your world upside-down in a moment. Life as you know it can shatter just as quickly. As a result of the trauma, you may feel frozen in that moment. The scene may be stuck on repeat in your mind. So, how do you begin to heal? You're already dealing with the stress of COVID-19, so now what?
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By Clark Lee December 9, 2020
The holidays tend to bring feelings of hope and joy. Yet many struggle because their holiday reality feels opposite of what the movies portray. So, turning to porn addiction to escape can become more frequent during the holidays. As a result, you may have made a discovery you didn't see coming.
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By Clark Lee November 9, 2020
Just like other addictions, sex addiction is not simply about craving sex. In fact, similar to those with other addictions, they have underlying issues like shame, anxiety, depression, past sexual abuse, and stress. A person's past trauma could play a large role in a person's addiction. Mostly when it the trauma happens to a person during their childhood. Likewise, focusing on underlying trauma is an excellent start to healing and recovering from an addiction.
A man and a woman wearing face masks are standing next to each other on a sidewalk.
By Clark Lee October 6, 2020
Among all the things COVID-19 is leading to, the last thing you thought it might lead to is infidelity. However, there seems to be a rise in infidelity cases, and you're wondering if your relationship may be in jeopardy. Is there anything you can do to prevent such devastating circumstances?
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By Clark Lee LPC, CSAT September 1, 2020
Many couples split after one partner deceives the other by finding a new love. But, what about those whose partner has an emotional affair? It's true, the impact can be as damaging and can also cause betrayal trauma. Like many people who discover their partner's infidelity, you may be feeling angry, sad, and exhausted.
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