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S.O.L.E. Counseling

Survivors Of Life's Experiences

Today you begin a journey to a healthier, happier life. We can help guide you through the path of sex addiction recovery, betrayal trauma healing, and surviving life's experiences.

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Therapy & Counseling Services Offered in Mesa, Arizona

Whether it's anxiety, depression, stress management, relationship improvement or any mental health issues you'd like to improve, we're specialized and able to help you find safety, peace and relief.

Teletherapy services are available. (Therapy & Counseling services are offered online for patients in Arizona Only)

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WHY YOU SHOULD START YOUR JOURNEY TODAY

In life's journey, we are human beings intersecting and exchanging with one another. That is just the beginning. In life, as we develop and grow, we search for our identity and how that fits in with others. We want to be known, accepted and loved as we seek connection and deeper relationships. We need our safe people that we can turn to when confronted with a life obstacle and need support.

The fulfillment for me is working together side by side and witnessing the transformation from pain to healing and wholeness. We all have our own journey in life with obstacles and difficulties no matter who we are.

That is why we started my own therapy practice with the name S.O.L.E. (Survivors of Life's Experience) counseling. I truly have a passion for this work.

Are you ready to take your first step forward in your journey?

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Sexual Addiction Therapy

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Watch Ryan and Carlie's Story

Is Repairing A Relationship After Sexual Addiction, Infidelity and Betrayal Trauma Possible?

Video Credit: Bloom for Women

After infidelity, why do some couples work it out and others don't?

The answer is in rebuilding the trust that has been broken through addressing the trauma symptoms, eliminating secrets, creating transparency and eliminating denial, and shame.

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& Deeper Relationship!

We need our safe people that we can turn to when confronted with a life obstacle and need support.

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Clark Lee, LPC, CSAT

MEET OUR THERAPIST

"Fulfillment for me is working together side by side and witnessing transformation from pain to healing and wholeness. We all have our own journey in life with our own obstacles and difficulties no matter who we are.

That’s why I started my own therapy practice with the name S.O.L.E. (Survivors of Life’s Experience) counseling. I truly have a passion for this work."

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